In our second episode of Raising Teens, we’re looking at home schooling and education in lockdown. With lockdown set to continue for most young people, we explore what is life like for families and teens who have had exams cancelled and aren’t sure what happens next. We look at what support is available for students who have limited access to technology – 700,000 children don’t have a laptop or tablet of their own and 60,000 don’t have access to broadband in the UK. Some have no quiet space at home to work in. And when schools do re-open more fully, how comfortable are parents with sending their children back there?

Our guests, speaking to host, Guy Lloyd, are Rose Scott, counsellor at Hove Park school, Dr Kerstyn Comley, founder of the MeeTwo app and Matt Dumbledon, a father and part of the team at Dad La Soul, a grassroots community to support dads.

Teen reporter, Lola Ray, spoke to teens about how they were getting on with studying from home, how much time they spent on their school work and how they think the pandemic and lockdown might affect their future.

Dr Kerstyn Comley talks about anxiety on Raising Teens

You can hear Raising Teens on BBC Radio Sussex and Surrey at 7.30pm on Mondays and Wednesdays and online on BBC Sounds.

🔊 Listen to Lockdown Home Schooling on BBC Sounds

🔊 Listen to last week’s show on Anxiety in a Pandemic on BBC Sounds

Help and advice

NSPCC support and advice for children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) 

Place 2 Be information on schools and education during the pandemic 

NHS mental health support for young people 

Young Minds advice and tips for young people who are self isolating

MeeTwo is a free fully moderated app for young people, providing peer support, expert help, educational and creative resources as well as links to UK charities and helplines.

The Student Room, coronavirus-related advice and support for students

Kooth, an online mental wellbeing community

Raising Teens is back for a third series on BBC Radio Sussex and Surrey – and, for the first time, on other BBC stations around the country – we’re going national! This special series focuses on lockdown and the pandemic. Host Guy Lloyd and teen reporter Lola Ray are back for series three. The first episode focuses on anxiety and how this pandemic is affecting teens and their families.

You can hear Raising Teens on BBC Radio Sussex and Surrey at 7.30pm on Mondays and Wednesdays and online on BBC Sounds.

This first episode looks anxiety and how parents and carers – who may be struggling themselves – can help their teens with anxiety in lockdown, what is causing it and how teens, parents and carers can get support. There are the usual tips and information on where to get support, so it’s a super useful episode. Guests in this episode are psychotherapist Donna Peters-Lamb from Make Sense Psychotherapy, Mo Bham, Educational Psychologist and Head of Learning Support Services for Brighton & Hove and parent Sophie.

Parent, Sophie, on Raising Teens: Anxiety in a Pandemic

Another first for us and for BBC Radio Sussex is that the whole series is being recorded in lockdown with guests, host and producer, as well as all Lola and her teen interviewees – all recording remotely from their respective homes. Brighton and Hove City Council supports this series. They say it’s an “important and timely radio series that provides accessible information and ideas to help parents and families in lockdown.”

🔊 You can listen to all episodes of Raising Teens here

Where to get support

Young Minds’ information and help with anxiety

Young Minds’ Parents Helpline: 0808 802 5544 (Monday to Friday 9.30am – 4pm, free for mobiles and landlines) 

For England-wide mental health services and support (11-25 years), including advice on depression, relationships, bullying and anxiety, please visit: www.findgetgive.com

If you are in a crisis and looking for support, please visit: www.findgetgive.com/crisis/

The Children’s Society advice on anxiety

Support in Sussex:

Brighton & Hove wellbeing service

CAMHS (Children and Adolescent Mental Health Services) in East Sussex01323 464222 – Monday to Thursday 8.30am – 5pm, Friday 8.30am – 4.30pm. Email: 0-19.SPOA@eastsussex.gov.uk 

East Sussex helpline for parents and carers of young people with SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disability), available during school and setting closure period. Leave your name, telephone number and brief description of the kind of you support you need: 01273 481967

West Sussex educational psychology service community call-back, available during school and setting closure period: https://westsussex.local-offer.org/information_pages/609-educational-psychology-service-community-call-back

Health in Mind, NHS organisation providing courses and therapies to help with stress, anxiety and low mood in East Sussex  https://www.healthinmind.org.uk

For a list of all Brighton and Hove services (11-25 years) please search: www.wheretogofor.co.uk

Being cooped up during lockdown, either alone and away from loved ones or with your family, is understandably taking its toll on our mental health. We are seeing a lot of posts on our Facebook group, Raising Teens in Lockdown from worried parents doing their best to keep their teens active, fed properly, educated and calm – no easy task when you add in the volatility of the adolescent brain!

To help, here are some really good resources for you if you need support:

💙 Young Minds’ Parents Helpline: 0808 802 5544 (Monday to Friday 9.30am – 4pm, free for mobiles and landlines)

💙 CAMHS (Children and Adolescent Mental Health Services) information including a page to search for local CAMHS support

💙 NHS Mental Health and wellbeing advice and links to services

💙The Mix – brilliant website offering support for the under 25s.

💙E-wellbeing for England-wide mental health services and support (11-25 years), including advice on depression, relationships, bullying and anxiety 

💙 www.wheretogofor.co.uk for a list of all Brighton and Hove services (11-25 years)  

💙 Open for Parents – East Sussex support for parents of children of all ages 

More resources

💙 There are more resources on our Help & Advice page if you need more specific help with anything from eating disorders and self harm to substance abuse and bereavement.

And finally… here’s Donna Peters-Lamb with some top tips on how to stop that worrying brain. Check back to our Videos page regularly as we will be posting more from our experts over the coming weeks.

Look after yourselves, the Make (Good) Trouble team x

On the 10th of April 2018, Daisy and I signed on the dotted line and Make (Good) Trouble came into being. We were in the middle of planning our big ‘Brighton5’ crowdfunder campaign to generate funds and get teens involved in making and producing films. With the brilliant Jane Keating involved – the third musketeer in our management team – we created a beautiful film and hit our Crowdfunder target. 

We grew and evolved – in November 2018, we changed our company’s status to a Community Interest Company (giving us a second birthday!), matching our ethos to put young people at the heart of what we do and give back to the community. Our work also supports frontline workers – those who help young people with their mental health and wellbeing – including teachers, support workers, the police, CAMHS and the NHS. And we have met some amazing people in all those roles. In the last year, we took on the lovely Saba Ali, who looks after our social media, and helps us keep on top of admin-y things. We were also Finalists for Start-Up of the Year at the Brighton & Hove Business Awards. 

Our teen team has grown from five in Kemptown to teens all across the UK. They have been busy filming, editing, photographing, writing, speaking at events, reporting and composing. They have taken courses in mental health first aid, interviewing using clean questions, sound recording, media production and compliance. 

Perhaps our biggest achievement to date has been to produce two BBC radio series called Raising Teens, bringing teenagers and their parents and carers closer together, and dispeling myths around teen mental health. We want to say a huge thanks to our teen reporter Lola Ray, host Guy Lloyd, BBC Sussex producer Richard Culver, and all the teens, parents and experts who shared their stories and advice. With the wonderful support of Public Health and the Clinical Commissioning Group, we were able to properly air difficult subjects like eating disorders, self-harm, grief and alcohol abuse. We are really proud of Raising Teens. 

Series three is in the planning stages. It promises to be bigger and bolder, focusing on issues around living in lockdown, a hugely important endeavour when you read that demand for help in the weeks since lockdown has been “unprecedented”, according to the children’s helpline Childline. Young people with existing mental health issues are reporting increased anxiety, problems with sleep, panic attacks or more frequent urges to self-harm, according to a recent survey by the charity Young Minds

To support parents, we have created a Facebook group, Raising Teens in Lockdown, with almost 900 members. We have reached out to our network of psychotherapists, teachers and other experts to answer questions and give advice. 

At the beginning of 2020, we started working on an ambitious, long-term project focusing on more vulnerable and marginalised children. We were proud to partner with OSPCC’s Reboot scheme and Changing Chances to deliver the first phase (read more about it here). Our aim is to help young people to understand their adolescent brain and better manage their emotions in adverse conditions, putting them in control. Further phases of the project will include the development of a digital toolkit for young people so they can access help and support any time they need it. 

We believe that this work is vital in an era where rising numbers of children are being excluded from schools – on average, 41 children are permanently excluded from English state schools every day (RSA Pinball Kids report, March 2019). This project is all about digital delivery, and it has never been as needed as it is today with schools closed to most and many support services restricted by lockdown. Like so many other not-for-profit companies, we are now researching innovative ways to attract new funding for the project, albeit from a place of economic uncertainty.  

Lastly, we are still working on our First World War project, Poppy, researching the history of women’s mental health in the Great War, and looking at what parallels and differences there are today. We are planning on opening up the project, which is supported by the National Lottery Heritage Fund, to anyone who wants to get involved by taking it online. (Watch this space!)

And so to today, our birthday! We will be celebrating in Lockdown-style with a team Zoom call, raising a glass to a company that is more than the sum of its parts, one that has introduced us to some incredible people with the same aim of disrupting the status quo and building a better future for the next generation. Thank you for sticking with us. We want to continue the conversation and support each other through these strange and uncertain times. We’re here for you.  

Lola Ray snaps Make (Good) Trouble management team: Jane Keating, Daisy Cresswell and Tayler Cresswell